Wednesday, July 18, 2007

My 200th Post....must be pithy!

But I am so not in a pithy state of mind. (Can we please set that to music and have Jamie Foxx do Ray Charles singing it?)

My mood is [puts-spit on finger to the air] pissy, I would say. When one has so completely fucked up one's life, how else should one feel. One would ask. And one would have no answer.

I am down and out sad. Okay, there; I've said it. And now what? I don't know. That's the problem: I don't know.


  1. You can be and should be sad. No need to feel bad about feeling bad. You just do.

    I allow myself to feel what I feel without analyzing it...

    And this seems to work. I wallow and then I go about my business.

    What is wrong with feeling sad when we are going through something sad?

  2. love monkey: I logged on to turn the comments off. I had this vision of people telling me to stop whining, grow up, etc etc etc, which would just about do me in. Instead I got your wisdom. Thank you....I'm going to leave the comments on.

  3. How fucked up can you be, since you are so wonderful? It is ok to feel fucked up. But I assure you, underneath the feelings, you are just fine.

  4. Your feelings are ok and necessary. Grief is hard and sneaky, just be good to yourself.

  5. I'm sorry you're sad. I wish I could say something to make you feel better but I'm not sure if going through a divorce is something that can be made all better. I think it's just going to suck for a while. Sorry.


So--whaddaya think?